JLo Remained 'Calm,' Ben Affleck Had Dramatic Gestures of 'Frustration' During Lovers Spat: Expert

Actors Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck were, at one time, perhaps one of the sweetest and most smitten couples in Hollywood. From holding hands while showing up together at red-carpet events and gazing warmly into each other's eyes to raising their blended family, Lopez and Affleck have had their own share of challenges to tackle throughout their romantic journey. Given fans’ affinity for their relationship, the couple is lovingly called "Bennifer," their popular 'ship' name. Absolutely nothing could sink this ship, or could it? 

Back at the beginning of the year, it appeared that all was not well in their blissfully married paradise after reports of an alleged fight seemed to have broken out between the two. As reported by The Mirror UK, Lopez and Affleck were spotted in the middle of a heated lovers spat. The couple appeared to be shopping for some new bling at a luxury establishment in St. Barts at Gustavia. (Do note they were both on vacation at the aforementioned location).

Lopez looked like she had fun while trying on a glimmery necklace and earring set. Her beloved hubby was seen snapping several shots of his beautiful wife as she flaunted her look. So how did this adorable moment transition into an alleged ugly fight? A body language expert, Judy James, seemed to have a deeper understanding of the matter. 

Paparazzi caught them amid a darkened atmosphere with Affleck’s hands on his head while Lopez tried talking to him. James, in her expert opinion, claimed that he was displaying emotions of 'confusion, frustration or anxiety.' In a conversation with the publication, she claimed he might’ve blown things out of proportion. James noted, “Ben Affleck seems to have turned a simple shopping trip into a dramatic one-act play with his body language here.”

James emphasized the calm before the storm and commented on the drastic 'emotional shift,' saying that it went “to using the kind of dramatic raised hand gestures and head-touching rituals with eyes closed that would normally be associated with confusion, frustration, or anxiety.” Next, she took note of Lopez’s response in this heated situation: “Jennifer’s own body language signals appear unchanging throughout these photos and her mood appears to be emphatically one of calm.” The expert reflected on their alleged fight and suggested that perhaps in their relationship, Lopez is the 'calming' presence. Furthermore, she added, “He is more demonstrative and active in his communication signals.”

The expert also remarked on his behavior while he appeared agitated and broke down his body language: “Raised hands, raised brows, eye contact, and then using the hand as a ‘cap’ on the head can give the impression of a row, which an actor like Ben would likely know.” Finally, she felt his serious mood was due to the absence of a smile or a laugh.

While this behavior is mildly concerning given the bond the two share and cherish, as per sources, the couple had apparently resolved whatever alleged conflict they were having; Lopez and Affleck were back to being that sappy and loving couple beloved by their fans. The two were seen sharing a sweet smooch and posing alongside each other for a few selfies and went on with their day. In more recent news, the pair did eventually split up but are trying to co-parent their blended families. 

This article originally appeared 10 months ago.